1. Pro-life Vs. Pro-choice
I believe that every woman should have a right to dicide what is best for her body. Now, before I get told that I am an awful person for this, hear me out. I personally think that abortion should be a last result, because there are other options. I don’t think it should be used as a form of birth control, because again, there are other options. But what someone else chooses to do with their body and their pregnancy is all in all, none of my business.
2. Baby Wearing
I love baby wearing. Ellie and I do it on occasion, and I wish we had done it more. When she was little I couldn’t find a sling or carrier that I found comfortable, once I did find one that I love, she was much more independent and most of the time just wanted to get down and play. I do hope to baby wear a lot more with any future children I have.
3. Circumcision
This is why I am glad I had a girl the first time around. Personally, I would not get my son circumcised. From the research I did about this topic before I found out I was having a girl I don’t see any reasons why it needs to be done and I don’t think I could handle hurting my son like that because I hate watching Ellie get needles. Anthony is uncut, and is quite happy with that, and also doesn’t want his sons to have it done. At the same time, if someone decides to circumcise their son, I don’t care. To each their own.
4. Adoption
I don’t have a lot of people in my life that have experience with adoption, but I know that it can be such a beautiful, yet heart wrenching journey to adopt. It’s one of the most selfless acts any parent can take part in for their child.
5. Baby Piercing
I don’t have a problem if parent’s choose to pierce their children, I have personally debated with this time and time again. I would like to get Eleanor’s ears pierced when she is young, but I think I would like her to be a bit older. Maybe around two years old. I had mine done when I was a toddler and we never had any issues with them, but all of my sisters were made to wait until they were 10 (ish) and each one of them got infections really badly, one of them even had their ear close up and grow around the earring.
6. Breast Milk Vs. Formula
I personally breast feed, and will breast feed my future children as well if possible. Studdies show breast is best, but if someone cannot or will not breast feed it is their choice. No judgement here.
7. Spanking
This is hard one for me, thankfully I haven’t had to decide to use it or not yet. I was spanked as a child, and I know it worked for my mom. I would rather not spank, I think I’d prefer to talk about it, use time outs and every other form of discipline punishment before resorting to spanking. Right now Ellie is too young to understand time outs, or spanking anyway.
8. Co-sleeping
I think co-sleeping is wonderful, I personally have done it since Eleanor was born. In the younger months it is so much easier and much more convenient. But now that she is a year old we are having trouble getting her to sleep on her own in the crib. Because of that I’m not sure if I will co-sleep again with the next child or not. Every family has to do what works for them.
9. Home Vs. Public Vs. Private Vs. Charter Schooling
I would love to be able to home school my children, but I just don’t see it working out. I have no experience with private or charter schooling so I don’t really have an opinion on them. Public school was okay, and I figure that’ll be what my children go to as well.
10. Vaccinations
we vaccinate, but each and every parent has to make the decision that best fits their family. I will leave it at that
11. Medicating Children
I really have no experience with this subject. I think medication should be available for children, in some cases I hear that medication really makes a huge positive difference, and others I hear very negative things about it. As I said though, it should be an option.
12. Cloth Vs. Disposable diapers
I tried cloth diapers for a few days and personally just couldn’t get into the groove of it. Maybe it was because I am so used to disposiables that I really have no idea what to do with cloth. They say that it is a very easy process, and I’m sure it is once you get the hang of it but I gave up quite quickly on that. I love the idea of it though.
13. Cry It Out Method
The CIO method was used on me and my sister, and I remember listening to my sister cry for what felt like hours and just wanting to go into her room and make her feel better. I personally will not use this method, because I just can’t stand hearing my baby cry like that. I hear it works wonderfully for some families though.